Spend time prayerfully writing down your answers to these questions

How is your daily walk with God? Are you abiding in Him through the Word and prayer?
What sin(s) are you committing that you need to confess to a fellow Christian and repent from?
Why are you dating your boy/girlfriend right now?
Why do you want to be married?
Are you sexually active?
What does a Godly husband/wife look like? (whichever gender you are) (women) (men)
Does your boy/girlfriend:
- Follow Jesus?
- Demonstrate growth in the fruit of the Spirit? What fruit do you see?
- Confess his/her sin? (not mainly to you but especially to other Christians) (James 5:16)
What are key passages to remember when considering marriage? (helpful resource)
Who is someone in your church you can ask to disciple you?